Picturing My Future

I'm having a hard time figuring out if I should just let love take its course or if I'm holding out for something more. I think it might help to create a visual interpretation of what it is I picture when I picture my ideal man. What am I missing? What haven't I had before? I haven't dated a man who is successful and has money. I haven't dated a man who is spontaneous and adventurous. I guess I just really want to be spoiled and exposed to the good life and for some reason I need a man to do that for me.